Date Night

If you live with your partner, it can be be easy to take for granted that you will see them in the house and not make time to have date nights and spend quality time together.

As you both lead busy lives you can forget to work on your relationship and this can lead to tension and arguments between you. Ironically this can set you off into a vicious circle where as you feel angry with each other, you then don't want to spend time together and do anything as a couple and your problems become entrenched.

It is important to go out on dates so you can get dressed up and make an effort for each other so you can remember what it is about the other person you were first attracted to when you met. This can help to keep the passion and desire alive in your relationship.

Around the house you are probably used to seeing each other in your dressing gown and slippers or old teddy bear pyjamas! That in itself can be quite sexy, but it is important to remind your partner every now and again that you are still a desireable hot blooded lover and keep them on their toes.

Everything in life is at its best when there is a balance. In this instance I'm talking about making sure you keep a balance between appreciating the security and comfort you have as a couple and also working on keeping the passion and excitement alive in your relationship.

When was the last time you took your partner out for a romantic meal and a walk by the Thames or surprised them with a weekend away to Paris or Rome? Or even just sat down and had a coffee and chat together and a walk in the park?

If you can just get some couple time into your diaries and reconnect with each other, everything else will become easier between you and just flow as you come at each other from a place of love rather than irritation and frustration.