There is a middle ground when it comes to relationships...that is interdependence.
Wikipedia states, 'Interdependence recognizes the truth in each position and weaves them together. Two states that cooperate with each other are said to be interdependent.' I love that! Interdependence is not being so independent that you have no need for your partner, nor too dependent on your lover that you take no responsibility for yourself.
I think interdependence is a nice idea because it recognises that both partners need and respect each other. There is a balance between being there for one another which swings back and forth between the two of you. Sometimes you will need your partner, other times your partner will need you, but there is also a space for separateness and individuality where you both keep your sense of self and identity which is also just as important for long term relationship health.
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