In case you missed this documentary on Relate last night, catch it on iplayer:
http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b0113fwl/Wonderland_Series_3_The_Trouble_With_Love_and_Sex/
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Thursday, 12 May 2011
Tuesday, 10 May 2011
Explaining and Defending...
...only exacerbates conflict!!
This is a great article by Dr Margaret Paul. To read the full post click below:
http://www.innerbonding.com/show-article/2812/the-myth-of-explaining-and-defending.html
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'It took many years, but I finally accepted that defending and explaining only leads to more and more conflict, since the other person feels controlled and goes into resistance. For a long time I didn't want to see that defending and explaining were forms of control. After all, I just wanted them to see my point of view. What's controlling about that? I convinced myself that if only they understood me, then they would change.'
This is a great article by Dr Margaret Paul. To read the full post click below:
http://www.innerbonding.com/show-article/2812/the-myth-of-explaining-and-defending.html
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Monday, 9 May 2011
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